The Storms Of Life
Child of God, you will have storms in life. There is no place in God you can get to where you are exempt. However, you do have a choice in a storm: you can pass through it, or you can let the storm get in you.
Did you know a boat could pass through a tsunami if water doesn't get into the boat? It can flip, toss, turn, and roll over and over and it'll pass through every hurricane, every wall of water, every one hundred foot tidal wave if water doesn't get in it. However, if water ever gets in the boat, the boat will become part of the storm. That's what happens in so many marriages. People didn't pass through the previous storm before getting married, the storm got in them, so now, every relationship they enter into in life, they become a thirty-year storm.
No matter what relationship they enter into, they will create a storm because the storm of their childhood got inside the boat, the storm of the last relationship got in the boat, the storm of the divorce got in the boat, and what they were supposed to pass through, they became. Is there water you are currently letting into the boat of your marriage? If there is, deal with it now. Talk it out, cry it out, grieve, and then move on. Don't let the past storm define the course of your present relationship.
I love you so very much and there is nothing you can do about it. See you soon.
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